Surely that could happen... but usually you hold out until your cock comes into contact with your dream woman, and then it happens... and it's wonderful! Brother, just give it a try and go to an event like this! You won't regret it!
It's actually quite simple: Here in Germany there are many porn shoots - and I have always been fascinated by porn, I love being filmed while fucking. With time you know the possibilities and the producers and organisers know you - and also the women who like you. - That I was allowed to fuck Veronica Avluv - and that too in a one-to-one scene - that was of course a great stroke of luck and an accolade for me.
Brother, just give it a try and go to an event like this! You won't regret it!